Beating Around...What You Are Already Accomplishing (as illustrated by a wedding reflection)

My heart is bursting with gratitude as I sit to write my first blog post since I reached out to all of my “old souls” at least a year ago. Those “old souls” are probably now ancient and I am now an “old ball and chain” aka… a wife!!

Friends, I wish that you could take a tour of my heart because a simple, yet public letter of thanksgiving will not adequately describe the how freaking honored I am to you who partied on down to Nola to watch Jared and I get married.

I hear that the ceremony was beautiful and that the party was amazing. The day passed so quickly for me that I will simply have to go off my snapshot memory and your crazy stories. But amidst all of the fun, those who attended our wedding reflected something so much deeper. Yes, our guests became a tangible illustration of the unifying and creative nature of love and they didn’t even know it! Allow me to explain.

Love by its nature unites. Rest assured that if there is disunity or isolation, there is lack of love.  

For one day, our guests came from everywhere to be unified in the celebration of Jared and me committing to a permanent love. There was no discord among those who attended because the celebration was more important. I know (because I invited them) that there are major differences in the lifestyles and beliefs held by our friends and family. On the day of our wedding however, it didn’t matter; the love between Jared and I became a source of unity and the response was the union of our loved ones who would otherwise have never met. Our guests illustrated perfect unity.

Love by its nature much increase upon itself. If love will not expand, it is a counterfeit (like lust or utility).

Our guests increased our love 100% (literally, there were two of us and there were 200 of them!) They made our love so much larger by adding to it their own love through their participation. Their prayers increased our prayers as they witnessed our commitment before God. They magnified our joy by eating, drinking and dancing on our behalf and they publicized the official Mr. and Mrs. Smyth as they paraded in the streets literally announcing to the tune Mardi Gras horns, sparklers and umbrellas that Jared and I are married! Imagine Jared and I doing all of that alone. While I wouldn’t put it past us, it would have been ridiculous. Love NEEDS to have more of itself in order to be legitimate. Our guest were the multiplication of our love.

Finally, love is by its nature completely faithful. If love is not committed, it can not be love.

Our friends were completely faithful to Jared and I on the day of our wedding. Some flew (in some cases across the Atlantic), some drove, some arranged work trips to get down to Lousiana and celebrate with us. I am still floored at the many who attended even if we haven’t seen each other in a few years whether we have known each other since kindergarten or since college.  Our friends were faithful, a complete act of love.

This matters far beyond my simple wish to be thankful. As someone who is mostly trying to change the world, I continually see that we tend to focus on what is wrong with the world and what is wrong with ourselves. Every time I get on Facebook I am bombarded with naysayers. “Sinner!” They proclaim, as if a remedy for our imperfections has not already been gifted to us. If we continue in this battle under the banner of "try to fix yourself because you are doing so much wrong" how can we continue and who will join us?

You see my friendly reader you were made by the same God who made the universe and although you may be doing a lot of things wrong; YOU ARE DOING A LOT OF THINGS RIGHT!! We often think that we are the center of the universe and that is what drives our selfishness and deceit. The bad and the risqué holds an attraction to our fallen nature but that is not new information. We can not give our imperfections all of our attention or we will miss the ways that we naturally exude holiness without even trying. When we forget ourselves for the sake of something greater and nobler, we actually look remarkably like the God in whose image we were made. That is HOLINESS!! You were made for it and you sometimes already accomplish it without knowing.

 

Those attended our wedding were mirrors to the love of our Father and man would not consider themselves religious. Imagine how far you can go if you recognize the goodness in yourself for what it really is, your heart leading you to the one true God only in whom can true fulfillment and perfect goodness can be found. Capitalize on your goodness, give God your worship and you will become who you were meant to be.

To everyone who was involved with our wedding, you have taught me so much about the love of the Lord and I really am eternally grateful. Thank you

Beating Around…Old Souls

Dear Old Souls,

Its Friday night and you would rather stay in than go out. You dream in black and white and your celebrity crush is Gregory Peck in the noble role of Atticus Finch. Smoking a tobacco pipe or reading a book with wine (or coffee, or tea, or whiskey) in hand sounds more attractive than entering into the twenty/ thirty something rage of the weekend. I mean what are those kids doing these days anyway!

If you identify with these sentiments my friend, then you are an old soul and this post is for you. See, I know you because I am one of you. I often wish that I were my grandma’s age and I long for a day in which I did not live. I wish that creativity was necessary for survival, commitment was not an option, and the stillness of nature was not drowned out by modern pop noise. I also want romantic relationships to be clearly defined, clearly followed and come with much less baggage (what the H is the difference between being exclusive and being official).

I write to you my wise sage because I often find that you are ashamed of your antique desires. You have been guilted into one too many nights out when you really would rather stay home and paint, whittle wood (I don’t know). But I am here to tell you that it is time to take a stand out of your rickety ole rockin chair. It is time to stop apologizing for your old fashioned flare and bestow some class on this generation of hooligans. Please allow me to tell you what you need to know and what you need to do about it.

What You Need To Know

You value personality! You know that the personality is infinitely deep and always changing. This makes its discovery the most enthralling adventure in the world. You like adventure. You have found that the same personality is in one moment a giant children’s museum filled with scientific experiments and brainteasers and in the next moment transforms into a reflective art gallery with expression as unique as its owner.  This is why you would rather sit and have a conversation with a friend than go to a wild party. You want to learn more about your friend. You want to explore another corner of their personhood. The depth of a story from your friend’s childhood is more wondrous than the flashy lights and bumping bodies that serve to hinder you in the discovery of your peers. Our generation has put up many barriers to your quest to explore the personality and you find many of these things to be a waste of time. 

 

Your love for personality also explains why you value older pop culture. This is why you feel disconnected from the Biebers and the Kesha’s of today. You recognize that there was a time when the status quo for a job well done meant that one poured every part of himself into his task. This type of “soul work” produced creation that reflected the personality of its creator. This still happens, but it is no longer the norm. As our society continues to devalue personhood, we also have devalued everything that the person creates leaving us with lifeless trinkets as entertainment.  You recognize these trinkets for exactly what they are and you pass them over in search of the real thing.

Second, What You Need To Do

Matthew 5:13 says, “ You are the salt of the earth. But if salt loses its saltiness how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled under foot.

Sure. If salt loses its saltiness, it needs to be thrown out but that doesn’t change the fact that we still need new salt. We need salty salt.

 

My old fashioned friend, YOU ARE THAT SALT and our world needs some new seasoning. Your generation needs you to stop trying to be hip when you know you just want to be human. See, your peers are aware that the postmodern life style is too complicated, too busy and too isolated but only you actually know what to do about it.

You can teach the world how to slow down by reminding them how fascinating a conversation can be. To learn the interests of someone new, no matter how different they are is your forte. The more interest you take in others, the more interest they will start to take in those around them.  

Stop allowing shallow conversation to happen around you. If you walk away thinking that we are spiraling into a black hole of teddy bears with exes on their eyes, ask your self, “How could I have used my excellent vocabulary, appreciation for history and superior IQ to raise the level of that conversation without seeming judgmental.” You have the power to change the conversation and possibly some intelligence along the way..

Lastly, stop observing and start creating. Because personality is your thing, you have the power to create beauty in a whole new way because you have classy taste and the help of modern technology. Do you love to read classics? Start a book club or better yet, write some new classics. Do you love music? Educate your friends on what quality music sounds like and how it can speak to the soul. Do you like art? Start creating art that will remind us that we were created to be good. Whatever your interest may be, start pouring your own personality into your work, share it with others, and teach them to do the same. This will start resurrect the depth that once existed in our culture.

Kindred spirit, the more that you insert your classy ways of the past into our monotonous days of the present, the more you can change the world by simply being you. So be proud of who you are and re teach the world how to live the good life. Thank you for your lovely life ideals… now I am going to go watch Singing in the Rain.

                   

                                  Mal

Beating Around... Social Media and Desire

What are the last 3?

I remember the very first time that I ever laughed hard at an internal audit joke. Once I finished, I realized that it had finally happened. Internal audit and the business world had finally taken over me completely… it had become the core of my very humor. I was horrified. I was no longer seeing the world from the perspective of a college student but from the perspective of a budding young adult professional with a bent towards the bore of accounting. I remember thinking, “ Mallory, if you think that accounting jokes are funny when even boring people are bored with accounting, there is no hope!” Dramatic? Maybe. But we tend to see the world through the eyes of our profession and as a young woman who left business for the mission field, I have a bad (or good depending on the audience) habit of relating almost everything back to Christianity. Yes, I have the super ability to tell you how your mosquito bite should remind

you of the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Allow me to demonstrate.

My job requires me to spend much time in the bible and on social media. I have spent countless hours complaining about the problems that the Internet has caused in our society (just tell a middle schooler to ask a girl out in person and you will see what I mean). But it wasn’t until yesterday when I was knee deep in Psalm 101 that I was able to see so clearly the meaning of our obsession with Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter and everything else for that matter. Intrigued? Well I sure hope so… allow me to explain.

Psalm 101 says, “ I will sing of your love and justice; to you, O Lord, I will sing praise. I will be careful to lead a BLAMELESS LIFE, when will you come to me? I will walk in my house with a BLAMELESS HEART!”

OMG My life is so interesting!

What would it actually look like if my life and heart were BLAMELESS? It is something I strive for but will not achieve completely until Heaven; so I compromise. Striving for a life and heart that is pure and blameless is difficult, but creating the illusion of a picture perfect life and heart… well there is Pinterest for that! 

When I am pinning, I am actually dreaming about my future; I dream out of a desire for perfection. My Pinterest life is perfectly organized. It is complete with a loving husband and adorable kids who run around in the DIY clothing that I had time to make in between, praying for my imaginary marriage 20 different ways, cooking the perfect paleo meal, baking the most unique cupcakes, sweating out the most intense workout, de cluttering the house completely, traveling to the most exotic places and all the while I am a skinny, well dressed, hospitable achievement woman who lives her life fearlessly according the inspirational quotes littered over the website (and of course my walls). But don’t worry; I am still sarcastic, witty, independent and strong. On my Pinterest boards, I have it all.

WE ARE SOOOO FUNNY!

The collage of my pins however is nothing more than a dream. As opposed to the pictures of a life full of energy, smiles, smiles beneath tears, and intrigue, I often don’t even get out of bed in a good mood. I barely cook. I rarely enter the world of DIY. My trust in God changes drastically accordingly the time passed since my last meal. I do not love others well and in the end… I’m sort of all about me. There is loneliness, a desperation, and a messiness about my life that I don’t want you to see and social media can help me fool you.

Pinterest is more my website of poison but Facebook, Twitter or Instagram serve the same purpose. We doctor our pictures and witty comments so that others think that our lives are more interesting than they are. It is in the effort that we put into to portraying a perfect life that reveals the truth; we genuinely desire that our lives be more than they are! We simply don’t know how to get there. Deeply we know that status, prestige, money, cool trips or witty sayings will only may us LOOK good. These things won’t MAKE us good.

So what’s the fix? Illnesses cannot be healed by merely treating the symptoms and asbestos filled houses cannot be lived in simply because their walls were painted. The sickness itself must be treated and the asbestos must be cleared. We can give off an image of perfection but we unless we deal with our deeper issues, true happiness may as will be a fantasy board on our Pinterest accounts.

To start, we have to be honest with ourselves. Ours lives will NEVER be picture perfect, but our deep desire for that kind of perfection should lead us to believe that there exists a perfection to fill that desire.

COFFEE SNOBS!!!

 C.S. Lewis wrote, “Creatures are not born with desires unless satisfaction for those desires exists. A baby feels hunger: well, there is such a thing as food. A duckling wants to swim: well, there is such a thing as water. Men feel sexual desire: well there is such a thing as sex. If I find in myself a desire, which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world. If none of my earthly pleasures satisfy it, that does not prove that the universe is a fraud. Probably earthly pleasures were never meant to satisfy it, but only to arouse it, to suggest the real thing.”

If that perfection exists, it is higher than we. We owe it to ourselves, and all the time that we spend pretending to search for it, to ACTUALLY find it and to ask it to extend it’s own perfection into our lives.

This is exactly who God is and what He does. He is the only perfection. The only way to fulfill our deep desire for this perfection is to allow Him to bestow his very self upon us. And to accept this perfection is to begin to trade out the characteristics of our heart for the characteristics of His. You know these characteristics. They are the ones that we sort of throw around at church but never take seriously. The one’s about honesty, integrity, purity, forgiveness and true love. What if we were to show the world truth that actually lies in our hearts and then allow God to take away the ugliness and make it beautiful? Then we wouldn’t have to dream about the perfection because it has become the goal, to be more like Christ. We wouldn’t have to paint the exterior of our lives to be pretty because the beauty of a heart given to the Lord would simply shine through.

Easier said than done? Sure! But according to my “Ummm can we go there” board, I am up for an adventure so why not try to let God clean out my heart and see where it takes me. 

Beating Around...An Attempt At Explaining the Trinity (How Original)

All! Hello! It has been so long since I have written but it is part of my Lenten sacrifice to start writing again. I have so many thoughts to share with you but I figured I would start with one of the biggest mysteries of the Christian faith. Go big or go home right?

This summer, I heard an explanation of the trinity that kind of blew my mind and so I will now attempt to pass it on to you without committing heresy. Here. Goes. Nothing.

If you acknowledge the Christian God as God then you must acknowledge St. John ‘s definition that GOD IS LOVE! 

And so to understand the nature of God we can look to the nature of love and to understand the nature of love, we can look to the nature of God. The two are interchangeable. Let us start with love and begin with what we know… relationships.

Disclaimer: I know that my little illustration below is simple and idealistic. Many of us have had disastrous relationships but in doing so I would bet that we were searching for something that would mirror what I have described one way or another.  Ok onward.

Illustration: Boy meets girl, girl meets boy. Boy likes girl; girl tolerates boy. The two go out on their first date and have an amazing time. As the dates continue and the individuals get to know each other, they begin to find a radiating joy in sharing life with each other. She takes his breath away; he makes her laugh... they even disagree well. The two are finding a deeper life fulfillment because they have found a partner with whom they can share their life. They can make choices together, support each other, they can give love to one another and know that they will receive it back. In fact, this love often becomes so strong… deepening as it grows, that the couple decide that they want to share it with everyone! They want everyone to be in on the love that they are giving to one another, and so they make it official. They have a wedding, everybody parties (Jesus' first miracle hollaaaa) and the couple not only spread the love that they are giving and receiving to one another, but they stamp it to be eternal… till death to they part. True love must be shared. True love must be eternal.

The fun however, does not stop there! It continues, this eternal living love is completed through creation. No matter your opinion on sex and babies, natural sex ends in the creation of something that at one time did not exist. True love must be shared. True love must be eternal. True love must create.  

And so we come back to trying to understand the trinity. Love is meant to be given and received… it is meant to be shared. Love is then made complete when it is made eternal, but it actually ends in creation (again I am not trying to impose a view, I am just looking at the natural law of sex… it ends with the creation of a child.) And so complete love must involve three. We can know this because we can see it, but it reflects what is unseen. God is love, and we are made in God’s image. We are made in the image of love.

Ok, with that said, let us try to understand the trinity. If God is love, then by nature, God can not end on himself. Because GOD IS LOVE, there must be a giver and a receiver… God the Father and God the Son. And so as God is perfect love, the Father is constantly pouring out His love on God the son who receives it fully and then gives it back onto God the father. But if love is only completed in the form of creation, then the constant essence of a love exchanged must create a third being, the Holy Spirit. See, if God is love, then love is only completed when shared and given through at least three beings. If God is not three, God is not love and God is not God. 

Beating Around...Pro ALL life (Prall-Life if you will)

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Rally for Life in D.C.

From the Womb to the Tomb… that is how long we value life as Catholics. That is right: all life is sacred and all humanity has dignity. But in light of my experience at the March for Life last year, I have been asking myself the same question for the last 9 months. From the womb to the tomb… are we trying to make a point or are we trying to make a difference?

This January, I hopped onto a charter bus in eager spirits with about 50 other people (most of them high school students) to embark on a 14 hour bus drive from Florida to Washington D.C. Having never led a trip like this, I was told that we were going on a pilgrimage (not a vacation) to give a voice to the millions of tiny humans who would never get to use their own and to protect the lives of those who have no protection. After all, we are Catholic; we are pro-life; this is what we do.

The March was life changing. I returned from D.C. even more passionate about pro-life issues than ever, but I will let someone else tell you those details because I also came back angry and I write now to tell you why.

See, on the day before we actually marched onto the Supreme Court steps for the 39^th year in a row, I sat in the pews of a church in the middle of a random neighborhood and noticed that I was exhausted and in a terrible mood yet I had done nothing to earn my exhaustion. My group and I had literally toured churches all day. We started with the Basilica of the National Shrine, headed over to the Franciscan catacombs and were now at a high school Salesian rally for life.  As I sat there exhausted from lack of activity (lactivity, if you will) and stained glass overload, I had another thought… there were at least 500 of us in this church singing (a little) and talking about churchy things yet no one in the surrounding neighborhood knew that we were there. Did we really travel all the way to Washington D.C. to sit in churches until we could hold up some signs and be proud of the work we that we had done to build a culture of life?

Balloons for Baby's. I'm trying to be artistic...FAIL

 At first I thought it was just my group that performed a hiding act until the March, but the more I talked to my other friends, the more I realized that this was pretty much everyone’s experience… go to the holocaust museum, go on retreat, go to church, march and go home.  Now I am in NO WAY saying that there is no value in these activities. The experience can be so beautiful, but if we are on a platform for our American brothers and sisters to see the love of God, this just won’t do.

Every single year, 200,000 Christians go to Washington D.C. on the SAME WEEKEND! My friends, this should be Washington D.C’s favorite weekend of the year and yet it goes unnoticed. We should not be just sitting in churches. Sure, let’s gather together at the Supper of the Lamb and build each other up as the body of Christ but then let’s go out and take care of the rest of our body! If we say that we value life from the womb to the tomb, why aren’t we taking care of all the people who are in between during that weekend?

Friends At the March... Imagine What We Could Do!

Could you imagine what it would look like if 200,000 Christians stormed on D.C. and just infiltrated the soup kitchens, pregnancy centers, homeless ministries, adoption agencies, battered women shelters, and rehab centers? Could you imagine 200,000 Christians looking into the eyes of a woman who has had abortions and showing her the actions of love, understanding and forgiveness instead of the words of condemnation? What if we showed the people in our Capitol that we as Catholics and as Christians really do value ALL life, even the lives that are not well lived. What if we showed them that we are not there to condemn, that we are there to build up a culture that celebrates when the lost are found.

Maybe then our society would be more open to talk about pro-life issues instead of dismissing us as “warring on women” or the “extreme right wing”. Maybe when we come out from our churches and from behind the words on our poster boards to share the GOSPEL with our brothers and sisters, we will have an impact. If 120 believers received the Holy Spirit in the Acts of the Apostles and added 3000 people to their number… how can 200,000 Christians in one city not make a dent! ?

So my friends, this is what I ask: I realize that I am ranting about an ideal and that every ideal has a practical nature and a logistical side. If you are leading a trip to the March for Life this year (I assume you are planning right now), call a church in the D.C. area (if that's too hard, email me at mallorybueche@gmail.com and I will help). Find out how you can serve the city with them even if it’s only for a few hours. Make a partnership and help out. It doesn’t have to be very complicated and it will definitely add to the impact that your trip or pilgrimage will have on the people that you bring. I know I would have preferred to be exhausted from serving others rather than simply sitting in a pew.  Our world is full of people making points; it needs people who will just be Christ… He made all the difference.

Beating Around...FOCUS

Friends, family, visitors! Hello and welcome to the end of summer. I hope that your summer has been absolutely incredible and relaxing. Mine has been absolutely crazy and the next week will not slow down as I will drive to Tampa only to pick up and move to Knoxville, Tennessee. This life is such an adventure but sometimes I just want to take a nap!

Any who, for all of you who read my last post, I was in the middle of telling you why I joined FOCUS (Fellowship of Catholic University Students) and I explained  that the message and model of Jesus Christ is the only way that we can successfully change hearts, lives and eventually….. THE WORRLLDDDD!!!!!!!!  And so here is the second part of that post… let’s focus on FOCUS.

Truth time: I have written two complete posts about FOCUS and have deleted them both. I have this tremendous desire to spark in you the same pride in this organization that I feel through my eloquent words but it is just not going to happen that way. So here is the Mallory version of FOCUS.

As my mom and I drove to New Orleans I thought to myself , “ Man I would love to have some oysters from Drago’s today but we aren’t downtown.” Not mentioning this desire to my mom, we shopped for a bit before eating salads at La Madeline French Bistro in Metarie. This was all fine and dandy until we walked out of the restaurant. Imagine the horror when my eyes fell upon the Drago’s Seafood sign literally less than 500 yards to my right. I ate a standard salad when I could have had some DELICIOUS charbroiled oysters… my heart’s true desire. I settled…I knew it … and it was painful.

I tell you this story because the more I get to know Jesus and the more I understand my faith (which isn’t much) the more I am convinced that we as a culture are settling over and over again in our personal lives and in our faith lives.

In our personal lives we settle for image when we could have true self worth. We settle for sex when we could have romance. We settle for romance when we could have love. We settle money when we could have meaning. We settle for niceties when we could have truth (I hear that it sets you free).

In our faith life we settle for behavior modification (rules) instead of really knowing Jesus Christ (relationship). We settle for Sunday obligation when we could participate with the angels and the saints praising the God of the universe as one with all of our being. We settle for giving God our wave of the hand when we could give him our whole heart. We settle of common sayings when we could have true knowledge of the word of God, which is eerily relevant believe it or not.

We are settling for shadows and we are disappointed when they don’t fulfill. And by God (literally) I want to do something about it. FOCUS is doing a lot about it and I am so proud to have joined the movement.

FOCUS is a national outreach organization that works with the individuals on the college campus “inviting them into a growing relationship with Jesus Christ and His Church inspiring and equipping them for a lifetime of Christ-centered evangelization, discipleship, and friendship in which they lead others to do the same.”

See, the reality is that right now 9 out of 10 college students are walking away from their faith in college. This would be fine if suicide wasn’t the 2^nd leading cause of death in college students (1^st is alcoholism), depression wasn’t so prevalent on our campuses, the divorce rate wasn’t so high, the over all respect for human life and dignity wasn’t so low. But it is, and Jesus said that He came so we could have a life that is truly life… so is it possible that the further we move away from Him the less that the lives we lead will actually have LIFE?

The upside of this is that the people of FOCUS see this as an opportunity. I just spent five weeks with 300 the most amazing men and women who have chosen to go onto the college campus full time in order to change our culture. By building genuine friendships with students, small group bible studies and large group outreach FOCUS has changed thousands of lives. Of the 150 new missionaries who are in my class I would guess that 95% of them became a missionary because God used another missionary to change their life. 

 

Samantha Kelley FOCUS missionary at UT Austin tells her story

Think about it, when students realize that Jesus Christ offers them a life that is so much more joyful, so much deeper and so much more fulfilling than what they are settling for, they stop settling. Instead of settling for salaries void of happiness, romance void of love, and life void of LIFE. They will desire for LIFE to fill their very being no matter their circumstances, they will demand Jesus instead of mere church. They will be better spouses, better parents, better employers and employees and our future is now filled with joyful promises instead of illusions that leave us wanting. This is how we change the culture; this is the message and model of Jesus Christ at work.

Who loves a good head shot

I believe that we will only change our world and revive our fellow Catholics by spreading true Christianity and I believe that one of the most efficient and effective ways to do this is by changing the college campus. As such, next year I will be working full time at the University of Tennessee with my teammate Andrea Francois to reach students where they are (no crazy signs or condemning messages).

Here we are again! TEAM WORK in the boat races

If you agree, let me know because I genuinely want you in on this mission. I want to call you and find out how God is working in your life and I want to send you updates about what God is doing at the University of Tennessee. If you would like to be on my financial support team through monthly tax deductible donations or special donations  (also tax deductible) please take a look at my donations page. www.focus.org/goto/mbueche. As a FOCUS missionary, I am funded 100% by people who believe in this cause so get your butts on board and let FOCUS’s mission and my mission become OUR mission to spread the gospel!! (like that line??? Are you convinced yet?). See if I don’t get funded then I don’t go on campus and the students that God has for me to reach will not be reached. See how instrumental I just made you? Get in on this goodness!!!

Ok, there will be more about FOCUS and what we are doing in the future but now that you know about it, I can blog about other fun things.

John 10:10

^“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life,^(A) and have it to the full.^”

Beating Around...Benchmarks

FOCUS MISSIONARIES 2012-2013 I promise I am in there! I am dressed like Waldo!

Happy Summer everyone! I know I said that my posts would be sporadic but they are about to become more frequent as I decided to add it to my job description. Therefore, I am obligated to write to you my thoughts, feelings and experiences as if they are worthy to be seen by all. I have on my heart so many topics to share with you, which means I need to sit my happy butt down and write. And so, to start my string of frequent, well written, probably not typo free blog posts. I would like to tell you about the largest change in my life and why I am excited, scared, and even more excited to be part of this.

Moment = History

But first...Allow me to set the stage

In 2008, I remember sitting on the couch watching as our new president stood victoriously in Chicago, and spoke with the ora of an American (fist slam) prophet to a population that is desperately yearning for hope and change. Barack Obama, a well-educated, charismatic politician was quite literally the face that would save the United States. Although I did not vote for him, I hoped that his actions and policies would rise up to the standards placed on him by American (fist slam) citizens and that with his leadership, our country could rise out of the mess in which it sat to become noble, thriving and powerful, as it once had been.

Side Note: I remember my lovely ex-boyfriend telling me how excited he was about our new president, one friend throwing out extremely racist comments about him and one friend genuinely wanting to know if he is the anti-Christ. OH HUMANITY!

Fast forward to July 12, 2012 and not much has changed. Unemployment is still at 8.2%, our national debt literally makes me cringe (and so I ignore it just like our politicians…HIYOOO!), and the state of the individual person is rather mundane on average. In the past four years, I have not seen a resurgence of hope in our nation nor have I seen much positive change at all.

I do not write this to bash any political leaders, for I do not know enough to merit that right. I recall the 2009 election point out one thing. Americans (fist slam) know that there is something wrong. We know that there is something different in our world than in past worlds that makes us just a little bit lonelier, a little bit more insecure, a little bit sadder and cynical. Honestly, it makes no sense.

We have more disposable income than ever before. We have more information at our fingertips than any other civilization in human history. We have more opportunity, more equality, broader connectivity and more fun in our lives that ANY OTHER GENERATION IN HUMAN HISTORY!!! And yet we cannot manage our money, the population as a whole is less smart; we are less decisive, less loving, less personal, and more bored than any other generation in human history.  Suicide is the 2^nd leading cause of death in college students. Just think about how many alcoholics you know and if you are one my friend… there is hope. We are a society plagued with depression and addiction whether it is to drugs, alcohol, money, sex, insecurity or loneliness.  Just look around the streets of your city and see the desperation. Our world does need hope. It does need change AND WE HAVE KNOWN IT FOR A LONG TIME!

In the business world (a world in which I spent some time), we would look at the current state of affairs and decide that if more hope, more joy, and better quality of life are the objectives; our processes to reach these objectives are not effective or efficient. We would then look for a benchmark… that is an example of a model that has been both effective and efficient to foster hope, joy and better quality of life. Once we found this example, we would adopt it to reach our objective. 

My friends, from a completely secular standpoint, our benchmark to foster hope and change in this world is quite simply the model that Jesus Christ used. Riddle me this, how is it possible that the son of a carpenter spent only 3 years of His life preaching a message of love and sacrifice and yet 2000 years later He is still the most famous, written about, sung about man in history (must have been a god or something tehe …ok that wasn’t secular). He spent the majority of His time pouring into twelve subpar, blue-collar workers. He walked with them, ate with them, and most importantly revealed to them God the Father. He built them up and when He left this earth, sent them out to preach His message. Every single one of them became missionary for Him and every single one of them died a martyr’s death.

The Early Church: Absolutely Wreckless

Jesus Christ, through deep personal relationships with 12 men as well as small and large group outreach turned the entire Middle East on its head and completely changed Rome the most badass empire of all time. He changed the whole western world, has done so for 2000 years and will not stop any time soon.

We can start our new movements, we can create new methods of out reach and we can look to new leaders to bring people back to life, but no other movement or outreach has ever been as effective at bringing hope, joy and quality of life than the model and message set before us by Jesus. The more new stuff we try, as well intentioned as it might be, the more of a mess we seem to make for ourselves (i.e. welfare, social security). So seriously, can we stop trying to reinvent the wheel and just accept that the method of the man who leads the religion of your parents just might be the answer to our problems?

Think about it!

I have actually thought about it for a while now and that is why I joined FOCUS which I will actually explain in my next post. Until then, if you are human, I love you!

1Samuel 10:6 “The Spirit of the Lord will come powerfully upon you, and you will prophesy with them; and you will be CHANGED into a different person.”

Colossians 1:26-27 “The mystery that has been kept hidden for ages and generations, but is now disclosed to the Lord’s people. To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the HOPE of glory.